Relationships
Choosing between continuing the relationship or ending it—both choices are undesirable. There is great difficulty in the relationship, but the absence of it is also frightening. It’s a choice between two relationships, neither of which is preferred.
Career
Choosing between continuing a job at a certain place or leaving it—both choices are undesirable. The job has significant challenges, but leaving it is also frightening. It’s a choice between two job opportunities, neither of which is preferred.
Finances
Choosing between two investment options, neither of which is desirable.